To Eat or Not To Eat....

I had a friend years ago who had a saying.  Show me a man who won't eat pussy, and I'll show you a woman I can steal.  Yep, that's true.  Women love the feel of a tongue on her pussy, even if she tries to deny it.  It's hot, wet and the strongest muscle in the human body.  It has the perfect texture to stimulate the clitoris.

But there is more to eating pussy than just a lick.  You need to make her almost beg to feel your tongue.  Instead of just diving down and going to town, try teasing her.  Lick her inner thighs.  Run your tongue around the edge of her pussy lips.  Slide your tongue up and down her slit, but don't touch the clit.  Save that for later when she has been driven mad with your teasing.

Have you ever sucked her clit?  Try that one once!  Maybe suck her outer pussy lips?  Or, do something different by wetting your finger and teasing her asshole.  No penetration, just light rubbing as you lick her to orgasm.  Be creative, and above all, communicate.  Try new things and then talk about them.  What did she like/dislike about the experience?

And while I'm at it ladies, the same goes for men.  If you are not giving him blow jobs once in a while, someone else will!  Find out what he likes and how he likes it.  Mutual satisfaction is a very important part of sex.  There's nothing wrong with being candid and honest when talking to your partner about sex.  It's not the great taboo our society has labeled it.  It is a natural activity between consenting adults.

Satisfaction

One evening after consuming a little bit of wine, my partner and I started talking about sex and arousal.  After a while it occurred to me that men really do not understand how women function.  Men are visual.  They rely on what they see to arouse them more than what they feel.  Women on the other hand, are more thought and touch.  We think about different things when we begin our sexual contact.  It's not to say that sight doesn't play a role, it's that it isn't the main drive that arouses us.

If you really want a passionate woman, one who will want to please you, then do your homework.  Communication is the key to a fulfilling sexual life.  Find out what the woman in your life likes and what she dislikes.  Let her be honest, and don't judge her.  I think you will find most women respond to extended foreplay better than anything else.  Your kissing, your touch, whispering in her ear.  All of these things are a way to make her focus on the sex rather than what happened at work today.

We all know that the actual act of sex doesn't take long for a man.  That can lead to problems with the little woman in your life.  Sure, the guy gets off and is pleased thinking that just because she moaned and panted that she is happy.  But is she really?  Take your time building up to the moment.  Focus on arousing her through touch and kissing.  Trust me, if you want awesome sex every time, and more frequently, then make sure you are giving her something to think about that is relevant!