Satisfaction

One evening after consuming a little bit of wine, my partner and I started talking about sex and arousal.  After a while it occurred to me that men really do not understand how women function.  Men are visual.  They rely on what they see to arouse them more than what they feel.  Women on the other hand, are more thought and touch.  We think about different things when we begin our sexual contact.  It's not to say that sight doesn't play a role, it's that it isn't the main drive that arouses us.

If you really want a passionate woman, one who will want to please you, then do your homework.  Communication is the key to a fulfilling sexual life.  Find out what the woman in your life likes and what she dislikes.  Let her be honest, and don't judge her.  I think you will find most women respond to extended foreplay better than anything else.  Your kissing, your touch, whispering in her ear.  All of these things are a way to make her focus on the sex rather than what happened at work today.

We all know that the actual act of sex doesn't take long for a man.  That can lead to problems with the little woman in your life.  Sure, the guy gets off and is pleased thinking that just because she moaned and panted that she is happy.  But is she really?  Take your time building up to the moment.  Focus on arousing her through touch and kissing.  Trust me, if you want awesome sex every time, and more frequently, then make sure you are giving her something to think about that is relevant!